Please can someone put me off the idea of having a third baby???!!!!

[ghosty]

Oh my god ...
Last night, DH and I had a really big discussion about going for a third baby ... (DS is 5 and DD is 1) ....
And I shocked myself by realising that I am not completely against the idea ....
DH loves babies and would have loads more ....
I had had two c-sections, PND with my first child, am working hard at my business that I run from home (not terribly easy with a baby around) and am somewhat looking forward to DD getting older so that I can get 'me' back.
We live in NZ and so try to come back to the UK every couple of years but having a third child would put a spanner in the works on that front.
We would need to get one of those awful people carrier bus like cars and I hate them.
Third section?
I hate being pregnant ... morning sickness and then SPD .... not an attractive option ...
But I just have this niggly feeling that I do want another baby, want to feel the kicks, want to breastfeed again, want DS and DD to have a brother or sister ....
What to do?
Someone tell me it is a really bad idea to have 3 and I will stop thinking about it ...
G xxxxxx

definitely a stage
I've just got out of it

Think about this: would you like some sleep, madame?

Does that talk you out of it

oh, and I know what you mean about the spanner in the works with travelling back and forth to the UK with 3, that is actually one of the reasons why we have stopped at two. It's a very good reason actually, the airfairs notwithstanding, accomodation and transport gets very hard.

I would like some sleep suzy, yes ... you do have a very valid point there.
Just had a bathtime from hell and so I think I may have got over my little crisis for a bit ....