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Mom2be26 · 26/11/2025 22:48

so still currently pregnant and me and my baby’s dad are not together - I feel like all we do is argue and we’re never going to get along he threatened court when I wasn’t even 20 weeks because I said I wasn’t speaking to him and gave him another contact , and when I first found I was pregnant I finished with him due to personal reasons and what he said .. baby will always come first however that being said I never said no to him seeing baby I just didn’t wish to have him around me at all as all he was doing was stressing me out and as it is what him and his family wanted -disregarding everything I was saying .i also probably have said some things that I look at and go I shouldn’t of said that -but I am going to blame my hormones for it .. So I had to remove him and give him a different of point of contact to contact due to me being upset and stressed etc after my 20 week scan when he contact the contact after being bitter about me potentially having a new partner (which I did not ) I unblocked hoping we could put everything aside in hope of baby’s sake -he has now said he isn’t buying anything until he has a dna test . However I am not wishing at all he goes on the birth certificate as I worry he does not have the child’s best interest at all as he’s denied baby is his the whole entire time said stupid immature things involving the baby and I worry he will be difficult due to the fact that he resents me I also don’t feel baby is safe with him and his family at all due to what he has said - he also threatened to ring up my hospital because I said I wasn’t taking him with me ,and ‘he’d rather slap baby in an Asda trolley then pay for a pram and a hell of alot more including if baby was to have a disability they’d have a poor quality of like -however I feel guilty for the way things have planned out it was never meant to be this way but I am stuck in what to do as I’ve tried so hard for baby’s interest but I feel like I carnt co parent with someone that doesn’t want to at all he’s also very immature with things he has said about the baby it isn’t forgivable from my part but I am trying any advice would be much appreciated as all I’ve down is worry and stress for god knows how long now thankyou

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ItsDarkNow · 26/11/2025 22:49

Block him.
Don’t put him on the birth certificate.

Homegrownberries · 26/11/2025 22:55

There's no court action he can take to make you speak to him. He's not entitled to be able to contact you.

Speak to women's aid.

Mom2be26 · 26/11/2025 23:11

Mediation was also going to happen when I was 12 weeks to try and sort things out however due to be younger then most parents -our parents were going to be present however I called it off due to him threatening violence with his dad and my dad .. and he’s got a friend that threatened his own mum with something which is ridiculous because if they were to say something about the baby would he not say anything - he is currently blocked aswell and probably going to keep it that way .. I do not have contact with him at all right now due to him being blocked and he doesn’t know my due date

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Hhhhmmm · 27/11/2025 10:55

keep him blocked don’t have him involved. Trust me yours and the baby’s life will be much easier

BudgetBuster · 27/11/2025 11:16

Keep him blocked.
Keep his family blocked.
You say your parents were going to attend mediation.. are you under 18?

He has no right to anything. If he wants to be involved after the baby is born, he can take you to court for a dna test but it's unlikely as he'll be ordered to pay maintenance then!

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