I am 29 and partner 30. Just tested and there’s a faint positive line. We’re very shocked, we’ve only had sex once (this was last Saturday) since coming off the implant and I haven’t had my period back yet.
In the last week our circumstances have changed a bit and I’m looking for a new job, I hear this week if I’ve got a new job which is 12k more. I currently earn 43k and we live in a 1 bed cottage.
Before this opportunity came up I came off the implant with hopes to try next year, we haven’t been careful but we weren’t expecting it to happen so soon.
I don’t know if it’s shock but my partner didn’t really react much when I told him, and I’m getting the feeling he wants to not go through with it since it’s not how we planned (not much savings, apart from house deposit we’re looking to buy with early 2026). Ultimately I know he’d support me with whatever.
I don’t even know myself what I want to do but I don’t want to do anything I don’t feel like we’re deciding together, but equally feel incredibly selfish if I don’t go through with it, since we do want a baby in the future and I had my implant removed.
Has any one been in a similar situation?