Hello. Sorry, it’s a long one 😅
I’m currently 12 weeks with baby #3, and since my last delivery my disabilities have become a lot worse. So my midwife has arranged for me to meet with a consultant and with the anaesthetist team to talk about my birth plan.
So, my disabilities prevent me from standing for very long, bending forwards, sitting comfortably etc etc. Basically how you want to be moving around during early stages of labour. I could alleviate a lot of this if I were able to be in water, except at a point the pain becomes blinding and then I lose the feeling in my legs. So I was concerned I wouldn’t be able to have a normal delivery. As my understanding of epidurals was they have to be timed well as they will eventually wear off.
My midwife seems confident we can get me through a vaginal delivery though, as the plan will be I’ll have a safe word or action, (I’m also autistic with non verbal tendencies during times of stress), when I’m at my limit, and from that point I will be given an epidural that will be continued until delivery. This was new information for me, as I thought you got this window you needed to aim for; not so late you can’t have one, but not so early that it runs out.
Has anyone experienced an epidural managed this way before? To clarify; it will be to numb my back pain more than anything else. I didn’t even feel transition with my second delivery as the pain was so intense in my back. Didn’t feel a single contraction during my second stage either because the other pain overwhelmed everything else, and I just continuously pushed for 8 minutes solid. This resulted in my son’s lungs not being expelled of liquid as he didn’t spend long enough in the birth canal, and was almost taken to NICU. I also lost 1200ml of blood, and this is what we’re trying trying to avoid this time.
Would love to hear some experiences with epidurals, especially if they were given early or lasted many hours.