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Ds ex girlfriend is pregnant- advice

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Namechangexyzx · 02/11/2025 14:17

Name changed as sensitive.

DS (21) had a girlfriend this year - and they slit up recently.

Since breaking up she has found out she is pregnant (unplanned).

They are currently estranged.

Their relationship has always been fractious and this is likely to continue.

She is planning intention to keep the child (whilst this isn’t his wish, he understands he doesn’t have the final say).

His view is that their relationship is over and is unlikely to be constructive going forwards.

He wants to do the right thing by the unborn baby in terms of access and payment.

Any thoughts as to who he could speak to, to provide some professional guidance please?

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Oxo01 · 21/09/2026 23:19

Celestialmoods · 03/11/2025 20:11

@Dacatspjs this woman is telling the father of her child that if he doesn’t agree to be in a committed relationship with her within a month, she is going to deny both him and her child a relationship with each other. There is normal pregnancy protectiveness and hormones, and there is unhinged.

It is not ok for women to make threats like that. Would you think it was acceptable for every woman who has ever considered abortion and decided against it to be punished for her feelings upon finding out she was pregnant until the child is an adult?

And i would keep any text ( if he had any) where she says its his and all the above for the future

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