Pregnancy hormones all over the place 20 weeks pregnant anyone else??

[Dreamymama]

Hey,

so currently 20 weeks pregnant with my second one, I have a 5 year old. I don’t know if the pregnancy hormones really getting me emotional.

I had a really bad first 16 weeks of pregnancy and I was thinking I am done with being pregnant lol.

now my husband said he doesn’t want to have anymore and 2 are enough, I have just been so so sad since then. I keep thinking this might be my last pregnancy, the last time I am going to feel my baby kicking etc, the last time k will see a newborn and I just am just crying and feeling so so sad over this, I am sure it’s not a big deal I have one amazing son and another one on the way. Then I get so sad that I won’t have a girl and it’s just emotions everywhere.

just wanted to rant somewhere because I don’t want to sound crazy to others lol

Completely normal, make sure you make memories of your pregnancy so you can look back at it in the future

We stopped at two, and the lasts were so bitter sweet.
It did make me able to not stress when she was 'over her due date' and enjoying all the time I had with her being pregnant.
That was until we had an oopsie and now I get to do it all over again and enjoy all the lasts one last time!
That being said, I am super sad I don't get a little boy and now that I've opened up my heart to number 3, I just want about a billion more ....although I know that's largely hormones tricking me too....
All this to say, you're not alone in the crazy pregnant lady hormones.
If you stop at two that's fine, if husband changes his mind that's fine too. All you can do it try to enjoy the moment you're in now x

This post makes me feel so much better! Because literally same. Sometimes I am getting teary about not having a girl then wanting another one. but definitely I think right it’s the best thing to just enjoy the moment ❤️
hopefully the hormones will get better for us lol

Your pregnancy hormones will be all over the place, its completely normal how you're feeling.
Im currently pregnant with my first after 3 miscarriages and my partner said because of how difficult this pregnancy has been for me he doesnt want to risk a second one (ive had very bad PGP)
I dont actually feel sad about not having anymore, im enjoying the final stage of pregnancy the best i can, im getting tired now and everything is getting harder, but im still trying to enjoy the final stretch.

I think if this is your last, it can be emotional to think about, but you can have a little cry from time to time and enjoy the pregnancy you have right now, his mind might change after the little one is born, or after a couple of years of your youngest being here.

Never say never😁 x