TinkerbellesMum - I'm sorry if I offended, it wasn't my intent. If I'd been in your situation I'd have done exactly the same thing and I completely agree that a pre-term footling breech is not a good vaginal birth candidate.
I'm not trying to say that all women carrying breech should have a vaginal birth, and emergency situations will almost always necessitate a change in plans. I'm just trying to make women aware that vaginal birth of breech babies is an option that they might want to consider that can be as safe as a CS.
The framework I was given by MWs was that the baby should be full term and normally developed, labour should start spontaneously and progress naturally. If any of those things had failed to happen my MWs would have been strongly recommending a CS and I'd have been taking their advice whilst being very grateful it was an option. The vaginal birth breech babies that tend to run into problems are those that are interferred with. Yes, there are always risks that can't be entirely eliminated, but there are risks in any birth.
In an ideal world medical professionals would make recommendations on the basis of good research, tailored to the individual's circumstances. My experience, which seems to tie in with the experience of a lot of other women, is that obstetric medical advice often seems to be based on annecdote and hospital protocol - even when there is evidence to sugest that that advice is NOT linked to improved outcomes for mothers and/or babies. My experience was that pracitioners within the NHS did not give me all the information I needed to make an informed decision on how to birth my breech baby, and I felt the information they did give was presented in a way to make a CS the only logical choice. Listening to other women with breech babies, my experience doesn't seem unusual. The type of hands-off, vaginal birth I had wasn't mentioned at all by the registrar I saw, even when I explicitly asked about vaginal birth - if I wasn't told, why should I assume that other women have been?
I don't understand why being a primip increases the risk. I'd also be interested to know which trials compared outcomes for different presentations - I know that footling is more risky thank frank, is more risky than full breech - but I don't recall ever seeing a comparison of how much more and I'd be interested to.
I also suspect you'd have to go a long way past insisting on a vaginal birth of a breech, term baby before the hospital would kick you out - making you sign a disclaimer, maybe, but the legal implications of denying care would be so massive they wouldn't do it. Are they even legally allowed to? I know midwives have a duty of care to women in labour.