Not long ago I slept with a guy I have known of for a while and have just found out I am pregnant. I am well aware I should’ve taken precautions and feeling very fragile so please no lectures on that front. I am 34 and have no children, I do want children but have kind of pushed it out of my mind that it will happen for me because it’s so hard to meet someone these days, and have no interest in dating, think I am too traumatised from past relationships. I have only told a few close people and they have been very supportive, my mum in particular is encouraging me to keep it. I am very worried at the prospect of being a single mum, and how I will manage financially. I work for the NHS and have a mortgage and drive so feel as thought I’d be in a good position practically. I had an abortion last year and has been very hard emotionally since, however it was the right choice given the circumstances I was in at that time. I am so confused and conflicted what to do for the best. I haven’t told the guy yet and if I did decide to keep it I am in the mindset I would be a single mum with no financial support. I am worried if I have a termination I will regret again and what if I never meet someone again to potentially have a baby with, or if I go ahead with the pregnancy am I robbing myself the chance to have the “set up” I would love- meeting someone, planning a pregnancy together etc. I have had a consultation and counselling session with BPAS and the thought of abortion again makes me feel sick. But the thought of people’s judgment, and possibly struggling alone with a baby doesn’t make me feel much better. Has anyone else been in this situation? Any advice from single mums? Sorry for the long post, my head has been all over the place since I found out nearly 2 weeks ago.