I am just finishing my first trimester of pregnancy. My mother in law and my father in law came to visit and its been almost a month. But last week I overheard my mother in law telling my husband that he should not give me a lot of attention. Lately, my husband's mind has only been about earning more money and now his parents as they came to visit us. My husband anyway did not give me a lot of attention even before pregnancy, he is nice otherwise but he does not always show his love but if I confront him he will say I do care a lot. I even confronted him that I heard his mother saying what she did and he tried to ignore it and does not agree that it was a wrong thing what she said. This was a planned pregnancy and he is not unhappy about the pregnancy as such but I do not see any emotional support. He is working remotely and so am I but the whole day he won't mostly come and ask in general how am I. Lately all I have been doing is crying, I think of everything and start crying and I am so worried that this can affect the baby's development. What do I do? I am not able to talk to him about him being emotionally unavailable, if I do he starts defending it. He even forgot our first ultrasound appointment.
My in laws will leave in a 3/4 days.
How do I tackle the whole situation? What should I do? I am feeling so upset, cant concentrate on work much also