Hi! Just looking for similar stories, advice etc or maybe I just want to rant
I had heavy bleeding at 10 weeks, I was just laying on the sofa doing nothing and suddenly felt a gush of blood. Went to the toilet and found bright red blood, filled a couple of pads in about an hour and went straight to the hospital (this was in Spain as I was visiting my parents). At the hospital they did an internal scan, baby was fine but they could not find any hematomas. Told me to rest, avoid sex and don't lift heavy weights. Spotted for a couple of days with cramping but that was it.
Fast forward to this week, 11.5 weeks pregnant (10 days after the last bleed) the same thing happens but this time I bleed for over 3h and with cramps. I'm back in the UK so I call 111, they refer me to the urgent treatment center where they can't do anything but refer me to the EPU the following morning. Went to the EPU, they checked that the baby was fine with an abdominal ultrasound but did not look or mention anything about hematomas. They told me that some people just bleed and sent me on my way with no further advice.
The day after I had a private scan booked, and just before the scan I started to bleed but only when going to the toilet. I still went to the private scan and they found an hematoma of 1.7cm above the sac (abdominal ultrasound). The woman was in shock that they did not find this at the EPU just 24h before this, she was angry and even asked me if the person that did the scan at the NHS was in training because with my history of bleeding they should have been more thorough. She recommended that I speak with the EPU and they monitor it, she believes that my hematoma could have been bigger and because of my bleeding is already shrinking but it's difficult to know. Since then I've been calling the EPU and my midwife with no response... I bled last night again but only when I went to the toilet and now I just get brownish spotting when I wipe.
I'm not as worried as before because now I know why I'm bleeding and that my SCH is small but honestly the lack of response from the EPU/midwife is disappointing, especially after I've already asked them to refer me to mental health because I was really struggling with anxiety.
In the meantime I'm just keeping it easy, resting as much as possible and not doing any lifting.
Thank you for reading me and sharing your stories