Hello! Would love some advice if anyone has thoughts.
I'm pregnant, due later this year. My husband and I are keen to move house, we are in a tiny flat atm and want a bit more space. We love Chiswick, where my sister lives. I'm really close to her, although we don't see eachother that often as I currently live on the other side of London.
I'm a bit concerned that my sister might be worried about us moving so close by. She loves us both, but because we are expecting, our wider families will visit more often and I suspect she's worried she'll be roped into more family stuff than she's comfortable with (my family are quite full on and there's a bit of a cultural expectation that if they come to see you, you make time and space to be with them).
She hasn't said this, I'm just guessing. My husband thinks we have to make the decision that's best for us, and my sister will be fine. I think I should ask her, and see if my suspicions are right. I don't want to upset her equilibrium, she's built a really nice life for herself. I also wander though if I've got my priorities wrong, and should just go with what my husband is saying. What would you do? Thank you!
Ps should add, my sister has a really full on job and social life so we are in no way expecting any help with childcare, and that's not part of the reason for the move