Hello,
I’m just looking for a little advice if possible or at least some sensible opinions!
I’m currently 6 weeks pregnant with hopefully our second child, although this is my seventh pregnancy. After a number of lost pregnancies, I was diagnosed with anti-phospholipid syndrome and given a medicated plan to follow in subsequent pregnancies. In 2020, I fell pregnant with our daughter and, following the plan, we now have a beautiful 4 year old. Since then, I have lost another pregnancy and we decided we were perfectly happy as a family of 3. Cue 2 weeks ago when I found out I was unexpectedly pregnant. Whilst not planned, we are over the moon and this would be a wonderful final addition to our family.
Last year I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia and tried various medications to keep it under control, unfortunately none of those are advised to take during pregnancy so as soon as I found out, I stopped taking them. This has caused some nasty withdrawal symptoms but 2 weeks on, I seem to be over the worst and am feeling a little better. I have also been taking the medication prescribed back in 2020 for a pregnancy - cyclogest, aspirin, extra strength folic acid, Clexane injections and promethezine. I have a scan booked in at the EPAU next Friday when I’ll be around 7 weeks - keep everything crossed! Although I’m not naive, we’ve seen a heartbeat at 7 weeks before and gone on to lose the pregnancy.
Besides the general anxiety about pregnancy, plus the added anxiety of pregnancy after loss, I’m also starting to fret about a holiday we have booked for 3 weeks time. A family member is getting married abroad in Kos, Greece, and we have booked a weeks stay in a lovely hotel. We’re so excited, it’s a long needed holiday after a tricky winter getting to grips with Fibromyalgia etc. and our daughter can’t wait to fly on a plane! However, I’m now worrying about whether going abroad at 9/10 weeks pregnant considering my history and medical background is sensible and safe? I know that if something is going to happen, it will happen whether I’m in the UK or not. I’m just worrying! We’ll be travelling with most of my family so will have lots of people nearby if the worst did happen (not that we’ve told anyone yet) but I’m working myself up about it.
I’m then getting stressed about the injections and having to take them on a flight. I’ve read you need a letter from your doctor so have requested one today - even though I feel that’s assuming the best and that everything will be ok. We’re travelling out with family so will have to tell some of them as it’ll be obvious at airport security. I’m then worrying about what to do with the used injections. Here, I have a yellow sharps box, I don’t know if they’re accepted abroad, or where I’d even dispose of it before heading home?
I’m just getting myself all in a jumble with worry and know it won’t be helping. Of course, I’m aware we’re in a lucky position - being pregnant, having a holiday to go on - but the worrying is consuming me at the moment. Any advice or opinions would be kindly received.
Thank you!