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SWJ90 · 28/04/2025 13:48

Hi all, I'm just about 12 weeks pregnant (waiting on dating scan next week). I've been a teacher for the last 9 years and this year I finally managed to find a way out. Ive been working for a marketing company part time and at school part time (2 days and 3 days). The marketing company offered me a full time role to start in August around 7 weeks ago (after I had just found out I was pregnant). I took the job because I've been desperate to get out of teaching for a while now, and my teaching position has been a fixed term rolling contract so I wouldn't have had maternity benefits anyway.
Now I'm coming up to my scan and beginning to tell people, I feel SO anxious about informing my new employer. They are a small company and the role they want me take on is one they've needed to fill for a while. I feel really dishonest but I haven't wanted to say anything until the scan. I'm worried they'll be annoyed or think I've been dishonest, and I also feel really anxious about the fact that I will only be working there full time for a number of months before having to go on mat leave.
I don't really know how to start the conversation - I'm such an over worrier and everything seems really overwhelming. Any help appreciated.

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JellyNellyKat · 28/04/2025 16:58

Well legally they can’t fire you or be outwardly annoyed at the fact they finally filled a job position and you’re now going on mat leave in x months probably for a year. However I wouldn’t be surprised if you weren’t the most popular person in the office when you do tell them

SWJ90 · 28/04/2025 19:21

I agree, but I didn't want to say until I've had my scan..I don't know them that well and if felt quite personal. It's my first and I've been really worried about complications etc

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