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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Constant arguing during pregnancy

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Rambo14 · 11/04/2025 19:05

I am currently 35 weeks pregnant and constantly arguing with my husband - to the point I am considering leaving.
I am aware my hormones are all over the place but I feel totally unsupported and unloved, throughout the pregnancy.
We have barely spoken in 10 days and sleeping in separate rooms - basically living separate lives.
thoughts?

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Unexpectedlysinglemum · 11/04/2025 19:09

Hi there I was in a similar situation and he walked out on me at 36 weeks so I didn't have to make the decision. I wish I had left him sooner. You're so vulnerable right now

What are you family like? If nice, please tell your parents what's happening and just go there. Have family and friends there for the birth and he can visit baby and build up a relationship in time.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 11/04/2025 19:09

Basically - if you have another support system go to it and push all of the 'what will they think' thoughts aside.

If he is your only support then play nice with him and just tell the midwives what is happening

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 11/04/2025 19:11

Ps it will all be ok - we've had some bumps in the road (see 'ex DP burnt my baby' and 'aibu to reduce contact with ex mil' for a taster of him) but I'm doing well my little boy so two and such a joy he spent today at a little farm hugging the Easter bunny and his dad has him once a week and every other weekend. It can all work out even if not as planned. But right now just focus on getting the support you need in labour and newborn stage - you need kindness

Rambo14 · 11/04/2025 19:21

Thank you so much for the reply.
Yes I think I will speak with my parents and possibly move in with them for awhile.
very sad situation as I have 2 brilliant step-children that are so excited for the baby arrival. I just cannot see our relationship getting any better after the baby arrives… only worse at this point.

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