I'm over 40 and considering IVF for a 2nd child. I have 2 frozen embryos, but I have concerns over previous procedures for RPOC following two TFMR.
I'm concerned that these along with my age, increase my risk of placenta previa and/or accreta and the fear is preventing me moving forward. I'm stuck in a position of putting my safety and my existing child first based on a fear and living with the decision to only ever have one child, never knowing what may have been. .
I'm hoping to hear from women who have had multiple procedures or c sections. Did you have any issues, how was it managed? Or was it a completely smooth pregnancy?
I've spoken with an obstetrician who has reassured me that if this was the case I'd be well managed, but also that RPOC are common in early losses and no indication of a placenta issue. I've also recently had a hysteroscopy in which no scarring was seen however my periods continue to be much lighter than they have ever been.
I'm loosing sleep over the decision as time is ticking on, I've already started the ball rolling with the clinic but feel like I need to hit the pause button as I'm just too scared of a bad outcome 😔