Hi, i’m new to this. I’m not trying to conceive at the minute but got not so good news and i don’t know what to do, i have been dealing with kidney issues from a child. however, i was told at my last appointment I’m perfectly fine and healthy (as I can be) but pregnancy would be risky for me but not impossible, “you can do it but don’t do it” kinda advice. Since I’m “only” 21 my doctor won’t really take the topic seriously. I have so much going through my head, people keep saying there’s other ways to have a baby, but how do you explain the feeling of loss when you haven’t lost anything? I just can’t seem to process it