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When did/would you tell work

16 replies

MumDSDD · 20/03/2025 16:28

Just wondering when did/would you tell work about your pregnancy, I understand different jobs have different risks and if it’s a low risk job then keeping it quiet longer but if you have a slightly riskier job when would you inform them ?

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Emma543 · 20/03/2025 16:30

I informed mine as soon as I found out just as my job role would need adapting.
if everything was low risk I think it would depend if I was struggling with morning sickness etc

PurpleTurtleMoose · 20/03/2025 16:44

I'm hoping not to do it until the legal deadline. I just don't want them to look at me differently. Not sure I'll manage to hold out as I'm starting to show. I have a desk job though so that does make things easier

MumDSDD · 20/03/2025 16:45

@Emma543what kind of job are you doing, my job is a mix of low and high risks as every day is different, look after young people and as I say most days are great but can be occasions of aggression and higher risks

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Shynslk · 20/03/2025 16:47

Told mine at 4 weeks so I could get the risk assessment done and any jobs that would be needing adjusting. Plus I felt absolutely exhausted, and anyways from week 6 I was off for a while with awful morning sickness so I was glad my line manager already knew. I just asked him to keep it between us (me and the managers) for the time being, which they thankfully did

MumDSDD · 20/03/2025 16:49

@Shynslkwhat type of work do you do ?

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Superscientist · 20/03/2025 16:51

As soon as I find out. I'm a lab user not no longer a regular user. Another factor for me is having hyperemesis in 3 of 4 pregnancies usually resulting in sick leave by 7 weeks it's always been helpful for them to have already known when needing adjustments for first trimester symptoms!

Shynslk · 20/03/2025 16:52

@MumDSDD warehouse. So a lot of jobs required heavy lifting and using a pallet truck which I wasn't able to do anymore

HundredPercentUnsure · 20/03/2025 16:55

About 5w, I was high risk pregnancy with medical intervention from about then, and I was also working in a volatile class (teacher) with regular behaviour blow outs requiring whole class evacuations so needed the support from leadership team from early on to help keep me and baby safe.

Moveoverdarlin · 20/03/2025 16:58

Wanted to keep it underwraps as long as possible, so told them at 16 weeks. I could have easily kept it quiet for longer. At least 20 weeks.

Jemily997 · 20/03/2025 17:51

MumDSDD · 20/03/2025 16:28

Just wondering when did/would you tell work about your pregnancy, I understand different jobs have different risks and if it’s a low risk job then keeping it quiet longer but if you have a slightly riskier job when would you inform them ?

I told my managers as soon as I found out, but I work at a hospital in the x ray department so my job involves a lot of manual handling and obviously sometimes being exposed to radiation, to be honest it’s just personal preference, I’ve found them to be great if I have appointments etc. I also had a MMC 3 months ago and I did the same in that pregnancy and it definitely made it a lot easier after that when they already knew I was pregnant x

CharlieAndMoose · 20/03/2025 18:08

Told my line manager and HR immediately but they knew I was going through IVF. With colleagues I waited until about 16 weeks.

anon1411 · 20/03/2025 18:59

I've just found out I'm pregnant and possibly already 8 weeks along 😅 and im hoping to keep it quiet until at least 12 weeks!

With my first born I told them at like 4 weeks and I kind of wished I'd kept it our little secret for a little longer than that.

PinguGiraffe · 20/03/2025 20:32

Low risk job, but I didn't tell my line manager until 18 weeks. First trimester was a challenge but I was lucky to have some flexibility and work from home so came up with excuses when I was struggling. Didn't want it to be public until after my 20week scan though, some people are only just finding out at 28 weeks!

OptimisticRealist2024 · 20/03/2025 21:41

I wfh 100% of the time but have a lot of meetings and have had horrific morning sickness. I told my manager at 5 weeks, HR at 13 weeks, colleagues around 16 weeks.

CaffeineAndCrochet · 20/03/2025 21:56

Told my immediate manager at 13 weeks as I had appointments coming up and I didn't want to take more annual leave for them. 21 weeks now and haven't yet told anyone else but it's getting impossible to hide.

GreatTheCat · 20/03/2025 22:00

My role sounds like yours OP. I told them from the moment I found out. Didn't want to do any physical holding, which didn't happen anyways.

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