I run my own business, 3 other employees. It is busy and doing well but a large part of it relies on me. The other employees are good at their roles but I do the majority. It isn't something that you could just stop, work generally comes in about a year in advance and it is cyclical alongside other more reactive extra projects too.
I earn a lot more than my husband, he is a farmer so that is all consuming 7 days a week every day of the year. When I am not at work I help on the farm, before and after work, weekends etc.
I just cannot work out how we could have a baby. I don't actually employ any other women and the men i do employ are older, have grown up children so we've never had a maternity leave policy or anyone go on maternity or any extended leave. Obviously, its my business I could do what I wanted in that regard but its more I don't see how I can not be in the business for any period of time. The most I'm ever not here is a week! I'm at the age (40) where we can't really wait but I'm also terrified of finding out I'm pregnant and not knowing how the business can work without me.
Surely other people do this and manage?!!
Would love to hear your thoughts.