Due to have second baby soon (I’m 38 weeks + 4) , I requested an elective c section at
my first appointment.
With dc1 I had to change hospitals at 36 weeks as original hospital were being very difficult about having an elective.
This time as original hospital is a lot closer and we have another child I decided to give it another go. I was also reassured by my midwife I’d have no issues this time around up until now.
I had a consultant appointment at 36 weeks and she forgot to prescribe the required medication, I spent an hour sat in the hospital pharmacy waiting for it and they had no prescription request for me.
Yesterday I was phoned and given 20 minutes notice to get to the hospital for the pre op, I had to drop everything and arrange last minute child care as they told me I had to get there for the appointment time . When I arrived the woman carrying out the pre op then spent 15 minutes at reception chatting to a colleague who wasn’t at work, she’d just popped in.
I was then told by this lady to phone the hospital at 730am next Friday, I asked why I needed to phone instead of just go in (like my previous section) she didn’t give a proper answer, she said ‘they’re really busy and struggling to fit everyone in’ . I’m not convinced they’re taking any of this seriously and I’m just being left and forgotten about. I’m now extremely worried I’ll go into labour and be told I can’t have the c section.
I’ve been on anxiety medication since I became pregnant again and have been doing really well however this has completely sent me on a spiral. I haven’t slept and can’t eat I’m so worried about going into labour early. Last time I had my section at 38 + 5 as they took my concerns seriously.
I guess I’m just wondering from anyone else’s experience what, if anything I can do?
I don’t know if I’ve got time to switch hospitals now, but I’m expecting to be bumped next Friday and told they have no space to do it. I don’t know where that leaves me if I go into labour and I’m really terrified.