C section

[Lovetolove24]

Hey I do hope some is awake that can give me some positive energy..
im due my csection tomorrow morning and my little boy has just come down with a fever 😩. Im now in panic mode about leaving him whilst also worried about passing something on to baby or potentially baby catching something when she comes home which may be Saturday.. feels like everything just going wrong at the minute and I’m starting to get all worked up 😞 i have three children already and it’s been cold after cold for ages I thought we was finally rid and now this. My son is super clingy so looks like not much sleep for me tonight before the big day tomorrow. I feel so deflated x

Oh no that's the last thing you need.
What childcare do you have in place for your others?

They would usually be in school however tomorrow is inset day so dad will be stopping home with them. I’m just more concerned about baby catching something so early. It’s literally been one thing after the other today I’ve been doing all the last minute cleaning/back packing etc then on top of that my back and pgp has for some reason really been playing up all day 😞 then I got in the bath and got out to both my breast feeling engorged which I’ve never had before delivery before now it’s 00:02 and I have to be up for 5am to get sorted and at the hospital for 7am. Do I tell the hospital about my son having fever before my csection or is it not necessary should I tell them when they wish to discharge is he still has fever or will be baby be fine to come home 😩 my head has completely fell off xx

Oh lovely I'm so sorry. What a stress for you the day before your little ones birthday! I've not much advice, but perhaps have a chat to them when you first go in. No sense you worrying all day, over the birth! They may be able to offer advice, reassurance or solutions for you. Wishing you all the best!

I also have a c section booked tomorrow! Just messaging as solidarity really… I’m terrified!
My 2 year old is awake and struggling to sleep and I am so worried about leaving her all day and night tomorrow. I’ve never been away from her! 😥
I wouldn’t worry too much about the fever, just tell the hospital staff tomorrow when you go in. And perhaps keep baby at a distance from your other little one when they do get home.
I hope your little one settles and you’re able to get some needed rest x