Am thinking about hiring a doula for DD3's birth. The thing that is worrying me the most isn't the actual birth process or coping with a newborn afterwards but support for DP and my other DDs, we have no family help so largely will be on our own. I am planning another homebirth and what stresses me the most is what happens if I go into labour whilst the DDs are around? I have friends in the area but they have young families too and may not be able to get away if I go into labour for eg at nursery run time. Also afterwards it would be a complete godsend just to have someone to either to entertain the DDs for a few hours or even just an extra pair of hands.
I haven't broached the subject with DP yet but like most men the first question will be - how much will it cost? We are in Scotland and I have looked on Doula UK and their doesn't seem to be that many around our local area (in fact none within a 30 mile radius).