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Tell me the difference between having a boy or a girl

18 replies

SharpMentor · 31/01/2025 22:52

Hi loves, I'm currently 11 weeks pregnant, so it's kind of early to talk about the baby gender, but I would love to hear your experiences: some symptoms that you had while pregnant with a boy and a girl, a part from the main symptoms that we all know, i wanted to hear your experience and the difference how it felt.
I seriously don't have any idea about the gender, all i wish is a healthy baby but sometimes i also think about the gender 😅😏
All i can say is i keep eating a lot of salty food, moody all time, tired so much, tired to do my own makeup, breakups on my face, more acnes than normal...
what about you guys🥹🫶🏽

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remaininghopeful23 · 31/01/2025 23:57

Congratulations OP! I think it's a bit of fun to look at symptoms and guess gender, but I also don't think there's any truth to it its just for fun🤭 I always fell into a little of both categories when you look up boy or girl symptoms...lots of sickness until 17 weeks, salty foods, great skin and hair etc. and I had a boy.

JimHalpertsWife · 01/02/2025 00:00

Largely speaking I think it's not possible to tell. However, from my personal experience (and the plural of anecdote is not data)

  • 3 women (me inc) who craved salt and vinegar crisps (mainly Squares) all pregnant with girls

Literally the only thing I can think was even slightly similar.

Oh, and I had bad pelvis/hip pain with my son, but I've not heard that from other mums of sons.

kiana2015 · 01/02/2025 00:02

Congratulations! I had a girl, my symptoms were:
Horrendous morning sickness, started at 6 weeks every single morning on my way to work, fine the rest of the day, around 9 weeks it was constant, calmed after 15 weeks the. It was just occasionally.

Very very calm, before pregnancy I was firey, argumentative, always speaking my mind, through pregnancy I was unphased by everything.

hardtocare · 01/02/2025 00:06

First baby- constant nausea for 9 months, craved pineapple and crisps= GIRL

Second baby- odd vom when I over exerted, terrible constipation from before positive test, wanted to stuff my face with chocolate and sour sweets throughout- GIRL

So basically wildly different symptoms, cravings, experiences and two same sex girls. Makes me think it's all old wives tales

kiana2015 · 01/02/2025 00:11

JimHalpertsWife · 01/02/2025 00:00

Largely speaking I think it's not possible to tell. However, from my personal experience (and the plural of anecdote is not data)

  • 3 women (me inc) who craved salt and vinegar crisps (mainly Squares) all pregnant with girls

Literally the only thing I can think was even slightly similar.

Oh, and I had bad pelvis/hip pain with my son, but I've not heard that from other mums of sons.

I had this pain my my girl

Flittingaboutagain · 01/02/2025 01:39

My symptoms were exactly the same just much worse SPD and PGP each time and had a mix of sexes so I have concluded it's totally random.

wigsonthegreenandhatsforthelifting · 01/02/2025 02:05

DC1 and DC2. Couldn't bear the smell of cooked meat! Lived on clementines!! Queasy in the evenings. Both girls.

DC3 no symptoms at all but craved burgers = boy!

Brooomhilda · 01/02/2025 03:22

I've got a 3yo girl and am pregnant with another girl. The two pregnancies are polar opposites! First I was only sick in second trimester, this time I was sick only in 1st. Loads of weight gain last time, very minimal this time. Last time I couldn't eat anything green (olives, avocado, grapes) as they made me vomit, this time no food aversions. Last time I felt kicks from 15 weeks, this time not until 19 weeks. I craved salty last time and I don't really crave anything this time. It's completely different but they're the same sex!

Elissaisnotmyname · 01/02/2025 03:31

SharpMentor · 31/01/2025 22:52

Hi loves, I'm currently 11 weeks pregnant, so it's kind of early to talk about the baby gender, but I would love to hear your experiences: some symptoms that you had while pregnant with a boy and a girl, a part from the main symptoms that we all know, i wanted to hear your experience and the difference how it felt.
I seriously don't have any idea about the gender, all i wish is a healthy baby but sometimes i also think about the gender 😅😏
All i can say is i keep eating a lot of salty food, moody all time, tired so much, tired to do my own makeup, breakups on my face, more acnes than normal...
what about you guys🥹🫶🏽

I have had a girl followed by a boy and I knew straight away he was a boy. He had longer legs and I actually had a different smell about me. I had a scan at 32 weeks because of slight bleeding and it was confirmed to be a boy. I then went out and got some boy outfits. Just to add I didn’t care what gender both my children were as long as they were healthy. I had no idea I was having a girl with my first pregnancy and she was announced at her birth

RickiRaccoon · 01/02/2025 04:12

I didn't find out either time. I thought I was pregnant with a girl but he was a boy. Then I had the same symptoms again and thought it was a boy again but she was a girl. So I don't think there's a difference -- and clearly I am terrible at predicting gender.

YouWouldntKnowWhatIMean · 01/02/2025 04:24

I had morning sickness all 3 times - absolutely horrendous the first time, vomiting multiple times a day for the whole pregnancy, slightly better the second two times and I have 3 boys. Apparently my first I "carried like a girl" - according to MIL - no idea what that means but she was shocked he was a boy! I didn't really have any cravings any of the 3 times. I didn't notice any changes to hair / skin. I felt bone tired each time - pregnancy is hard work!

allfurcoatnoknickers · 01/02/2025 04:42

HG both times 🙃. Although with the boy it lasted until week 39 and the girl only until week 25, but it was so bad with DD that at one point I couldn't sit up without vomiting.

PreferMyAnimals · 01/02/2025 05:04

I have multiple of each sex. Other than feeling sicker with the boys as far as morning sickness, there isn't a pattern. They're all similar and different in a variety of ways. You really can't tell.

sel2223 · 01/02/2025 06:06

I'm pregnant with our second daughter and the two pregnancies have been absolute night and day - so much so, I was 100% convinced I was having a boy this time as it's been so different.

I'd take any suggestion of symptoms being sex based as just a fun old wives tale

Battisborough · 01/02/2025 07:01

Pregnancy 1: very sick for 17 weeks, huge weight gain everywhere, only wanted to eat carbs and sugar, aversion to green veg: GIRL

Pregnancy 2: slightly less sick and only for 13 weeks. Moderate weight gain. Aversion to meat, wanted to eat fruit: GIRL

Pregnancy 3: very little weight gain and only moderate nausea. No aversions. BOY

pregnancy 4: same as pregnancy 2: BOY.

so no rhyme nor reason there

rja0702 · 01/02/2025 07:45

First pregnancy - Girl. Nausea started at 6 weeks until about 20 weeks. After then could eat quite normal. Hardly any weight gain.

Second pregnancy - Boy. Nausea started about 8 weeks, not as intense but lasted a lot longer and food aversions were strong. Towards the end, my dinner consisted of spaghetti on toast every night Envy he's 3 months now and Iv not eaten them since Grin. Also in second trimester, I experienced really bad headaches

autumngirl714 · 01/02/2025 08:47

1st pregnancy -
Nausea, craved all the carbs, pulled the weight on, v emotional, low bump.
Boy.

2nd pregnancy -
Worse nausea, craved sweets and chocolate, complete exhaustion, intense headaches, high bump.
Boy.

If you really want to know early, have a look and see if you can work out the nub based on the nub theory after your 12 week scan! It can be very accurate if it's visible!

Cornflakes123 · 01/02/2025 11:23

I’ve had 3 pregnancies. First 2 no sickness whatsoever and barely any symptoms in first trimester (first one sore boobs, second one not even sore boobs)
3rd pregnancy vomiting every day in first trimester.
all 3 were boys. I don’t think the babies sex has anything to do with the symptoms at all.

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