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Work stress

5 replies

BinnyWeasley · 29/01/2025 20:21

Hi all,

So I'm 3 weeks away from mat leave and in all honesty, I have never been more stressed in my working life. I've taken 3.5 days holiday this week (using up the last of my holiday) and I've had messages and calls through on both my personal phone and work phone. Of the 3 full days off, I've worked at least an hour a day. There was a fair bit outstanding when I finished on Friday but it was all outside of my control at that point. Back in Sept time, the parent company decided to get rid of 2 colleagues who were technically self employed, and we then had another colleague leave within the same few weeks. Come December, my boss had a stroke and is not coming back for the foreseeable. Ultimately, we've gone from 7 people to just 3. I am aware that my brain isn't functioning as well as normal, but the immense amount of pressure with essentially no support is reaaallly getting to me. I have raised the fact I'm struggling, but there are the other 2 people in a similar boat. I'm genuinely considering getting a sick note for the last week or so but I know that would really screw everyone else over. I am back as of tomorrow afternoon, my anxiety is through the roof and I have a pounding headache. I don't know what to doooooo.

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viques · 29/01/2025 20:28

You can’t solve the company’s problems! They are not of your making.

You can only do what you can do in the hours you are paid to work.

If you go in every morning with that as your intention then you will get through every day, and every day will bring you closer to your ML day.

viques · 29/01/2025 20:30

Ps if you are on holiday or sick then turn off your work phone, and ignore calls on your personal phone.

cherrybl0ssom5 · 29/01/2025 21:31

you’re pregnant, ultimately you’ve got to put yourself first! they will have to figure it out when you go on maternity leave anyway

Sunnydays12340987 · 30/01/2025 18:52

BinnyWeasley · 29/01/2025 20:21

Hi all,

So I'm 3 weeks away from mat leave and in all honesty, I have never been more stressed in my working life. I've taken 3.5 days holiday this week (using up the last of my holiday) and I've had messages and calls through on both my personal phone and work phone. Of the 3 full days off, I've worked at least an hour a day. There was a fair bit outstanding when I finished on Friday but it was all outside of my control at that point. Back in Sept time, the parent company decided to get rid of 2 colleagues who were technically self employed, and we then had another colleague leave within the same few weeks. Come December, my boss had a stroke and is not coming back for the foreseeable. Ultimately, we've gone from 7 people to just 3. I am aware that my brain isn't functioning as well as normal, but the immense amount of pressure with essentially no support is reaaallly getting to me. I have raised the fact I'm struggling, but there are the other 2 people in a similar boat. I'm genuinely considering getting a sick note for the last week or so but I know that would really screw everyone else over. I am back as of tomorrow afternoon, my anxiety is through the roof and I have a pounding headache. I don't know what to doooooo.

Take time off sick, you're stressed, the Dr can put it as work stress. They can easily replace you at work, put yourself first lovely, priority is you and the baby. You should be winding down xx

Sunnydays12340987 · 30/01/2025 18:53

And don't worry about the consequences, that's the companies to sort. They need more staff.

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