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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

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TeenGirl2024 · 27/01/2025 11:48

Can someone please read my message to mum before i send it!!

"Hey. I need to talk to you about something important. It’s really hard for me to say this as I don’t want to disappoint you or add more stress onto you than I already have but I’ve found out that I’m pregnant. I know this probably won’t shock you but I’m feeling a lot of different things right now. I really want to talk about it with you because all i want is your support and you are the only person in the world i care about talking to about this or anything for that matter because your my mum. I know sometimes i can be selfish and i’m not always the best daughter but I do love you so much and all i want and need is your support. I understand if you’re upset or worried, disappointed or angry. I do apologise for it being a text but this was the best way for me to clear my head and for us to both take our time before talking. it also helps me format what i wanted to say and say it in the best way possible. "

Is this respectful? should i add anything else?

i'm so scared to tell her!

OP posts:
Mangolover123 · 27/01/2025 13:09

I agree with other posters, please don't slag yourself off or put yourself down.

Mum I have some amazing news, Dave an I are expecting a baby. We were a bit shocked but now we have had time for it to sink in we are absolutely delighted.
Can't wait for you to be a grandma, love you to bits mum and feel emotional I am about to be a mum also.

MaltipooMama · 27/01/2025 13:14

Mangolover123 · 27/01/2025 13:09

I agree with other posters, please don't slag yourself off or put yourself down.

Mum I have some amazing news, Dave an I are expecting a baby. We were a bit shocked but now we have had time for it to sink in we are absolutely delighted.
Can't wait for you to be a grandma, love you to bits mum and feel emotional I am about to be a mum also.

Oh yes this is perfect!

Congratulations OP and as others have said, if you're both happy about it then definitely position it in a positive light!

Madre123 · 27/01/2025 13:18

I would, being a mum and grandmother myself, travel to your Mum, if safe and possible. Sit together, calm and talk things through. I am sure she would appreciate you telling her personally. I didn't have support from my parents sadly. Also, your Mum, will only want what is best for you, whether you agree or not, we all hear what we don't want to hear etc. she loves and cares for you. If you can, make that trip, sooner than later. You will then know if you have her support or not. You can then look ahead, plan for you and your own family's future. Congratulations....bringing a new life into this world is gods gift. By wanting your own Mum to be a part of that says that you, yourself will be a great Mum. I wish you all the very best. X

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