I’m in a bit of a situation. Sorry this is long. I just started a new job last year and only a short while later found out I was pregnant. I tried to stick it out but unfortunately had to leave that job as it was working with young people who had the potential to be violent/aggressive and even though my managers knew that I was pregnant I didn’t feel I was protected or safe to continue with the job. The job was also quite stressful with long hours (15 hour days) and sleep ins so I was effectively working for 2/3 days without going home. This is a baby that we’ve been waiting years for and I didn’t want to risk losing it.
Before that I had been out of work for a bit looking for the right career path after a big career change.
So now I’m stuck. Due to leaving my job I had last year I know I won’t qualify for any maternity pay or SMP. I need another 14 weeks of national insurance contributions to qualify for maternity allowance but am totally stuck on how and what I can do for such a short time and worrying about employers not hiring me for being pregnant (ie making another excuse not to hire me) or if I don’t tell them until I’m hired then being angry at me for not disclosing it and having a hostile work environment.
My husband could just about support us on just his salary but I don’t think it’s fair to put all the burden on him and we would not be able to put any savings aside for emergencies.
I just don’t know what to do