Pregnant at 10 months pp.

[Hungus93]

Yep. I've been on the pill but truthfully there were times I just forgot to take it. My daughter is amazing and I've been super broody but didn't want to be pregnant just yet. I wanted to commit to my baby daughter 100%. I don't know what we're going to do about finances, and how we're going to be able to provide for both of them. I have no village around me to help. I'm seriously considering abortion even though neither me nor my husband want one, and I know I'll never be able to forgive myself. I don't even know how far along I could be as I haven't had my period since before I was pregnant with my daughter. I just feel so sad and so lost.

I’m sorry to hear that you are struggling with this dilemma.

i think first age foremost you need to take a few days to just let your thoughts settle. Then if you feel you could consider going ahead then look at finances and practicalities etc. But nobody would judge you for deciding to not go ahead if this doesn’t suit you, and you should make your choice without any guilt you 100% do not need to proceed if you don’t want to.

racing kids so close together is very very hard. I did it with a 15 month age gap and I barely remember the first 18 months. That said, I didn’t have to “go backwards” when one was in school in the start from scratch again. I front loaded the parenting and as a result my kids left home and started their own lives sooner than if I had waited and had two kids 4-7 years apart