Hi everyone,
Found out I’m pregnant at the weekend (4-5 weeks) and have already encountered a bit of a big bump in the road. It’s my first time being pregnant so I don’t know what to expect, have a lot of questions and could do with advice and reassurance. I’m vaguely aware that I’m supposed to have an appointment with a midwife at 8 weeks, and scans at 12 and 20 weeks. I’ve no doubt there’s other appointments and milestones too.
I called the GP straight away Monday morning and they said they would refer me to the midwife team. Great!
But then the midwife called and said although I’m in the catchment area for my GP practice I’m not in the catchment area for the midwife team. Essentially my GPs will only provide antenatal care for approx. 25% of the catchment area their patients fall in…
After I asked a lot of questions she gave me two options:
- Move to a new GP immediately - she was strongly pushing this and originally stated it as the only option I had. However she also said it usually takes 4-6 weeks with their processes to sort everything out / transfer my records etc. so even if I find a new GP who’s taking on new patients tomorrow, all my appointments may have to be after my first trimester.
- Drive to these midwives for every single appointment - she said she would strongly recommend I don’t do this as it wouldn’t be practical for the appointments a few days after birth with a 3 day old baby etc. especially if I’d had a caesarean / baby was unwell / sleep deprived. I’m not 100% sure where this would need to be. I think they’re probably about a 20 minute drive away. I thought part of the point of some of these appointments was for them to see you with your baby in your home though?
I asked about starting with these midwives (and driving to them) so I didn’t have to delay my appointments while I sort a new GP but she pushed against this. Apparently it’s vital it’s the same midwife throughout..
DP is pretty angry and wants to complain to the GP and insist they provide me with care. He doesn’t think panicking and going with any random GP that’s willing to sign me up at 24 hours notice and then having no care indefinitely until they transfer things between them is the answer.. maybe he’s right. He says he’ll make a commitment to drive me to every appointment with the baby if I needed him to. I don’t know how many appointments were talking about and how practical that is.
I feel like I’m just choosing between 3 shit options here tbh.
I would really appreciate hearing from some people who have been through all these appointments before and know what would be most practical.
thank you!