I have adenomyosis and have been told it’s likely I have endometriosis. I didn’t know until after my pregnancies, but looking back, I had been having symptoms for years, definitely lots before my second pregnancy, milder ones before my first. I stupidly just ignored it and took lots of painkillers and put up with heavy bleeding, pain etc.
I have been pregnant twice and both of my pregnancies resulted in a healthy baby, one born at almost 40 weeks and one at 41 weeks.
I did have some very light bleeding in my first pregnancy at about 9 weeks but was checked at hospital and all was well. The rest of that pregnancy was text book.
Then in my second pregnancy, I had a lot of pain from about 25 weeks, to the point I felt something could be wrong, but no bleeding and no other issues. I used to have to rest, put my feet up and it would calm down after a few hours. I think because I didn’t know I had adenomyosis at the time and likely endometriosis, I didn’t worry as much as you probably will because of the reported risks. BUT, my babies were fine, now a teen and adult.
The gynaecologist who diagnosed my adenomyosis and likely endometriosis a couple of years after my second pregnancy, believes the pain I had in my second pregnancy was probably due to the adeno/endo but said I could try to conceive again if I wanted more children. We were happy with two though so decided not to and I was offered a hysterectomy but still haven’t had one more than 10 years on.
I’m not sure about aspirin, I didn’t take it as obviously I wasn’t aware I had the conditions and that it could potentially help. Could you try paying to see a private gynaecologist if that’s financially viable for you, as mine was very clued up in both adenomyosis and endometriosis, as I’d expect, including in pregnancy. Or ask your GP to be referred to someone on the NHS, presuming you’re in the UK, who can actually give advice as your midwife doesn’t seem to know anything? I’m not sure how long it would take to be seen on the NHS though with waiting times as they are. I feel you should be getting some advice and reassurance not just left to try to figure it out and worry.
I really hope that all goes well for you like it did for me.