Not wanting to conceive after miscarriage

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I'm kind of feeling lost at the moment like part of me just wants to give up ttc in case it's another miscarriage and just feel like there's no one I can talk to apart from on here. I've been with my new partner for over a year now but known each other for about 9 years. Recently had loads of positives New Year's Eve probably done the silly thing and told everyone and just started bleeding on the 6th so doctors have put it down to a miscarriage. It just feels like when is my luck about to change as 2023 found out I had a 17cm ovarian cyst which covered my left ovary and tube so both had to be taken out luckily last year it got taken out. And it feels like everyone around me is pregnant

I am so sorry you went through that. Have you reached out to a support service? I found the miscarriage association really helpful. All I can say is give yourself time, a miscarriage is a big thing and right now you are mourning. There isn't a rush or pressure to start trying again, be kind to yourself and give yourself the time to grieve the pregnancy.

Thank you so much and no I haven't spoken to anyone about it but might give it a try