I'm just hoping to see what others would do in this situation. I'm a bit stuck on making a decision as I don't want a C-section, although it might be the right thing to do. It might help me make the right decision if enough people say they'd opt for a C-section, although I know it's ultimately my decision. Sorry if it's a bit long-winded.
I had my first child 7 years ago. I knew I'd lost a lot of blood, but that's all I was told at the time. It's only been during this pregnancy that I've found out how serious it was. I lost 1.2L, narrowly missing needing a blood transfusion. I've now been told the average amount lost is 250ml, which has scared me tbh. If I opt for a natural birth again, I'm not allowed in the 'normal' delivery room, I need to have extra doctors on hand just incase, and I need to go on a drip afterwards to help expel the placenta.
My mum wants me to have a C-section. It's something I really didn't want, but I've been getting more scared the closer I get to the birth now (I'm due 9th Feb), and I've been wondering myself if it's something I should do.
I had major surgery for something else earlier this year already and it's not something I wanted to do again, plus I'm scared of the risk of infection and the scar afterwards. But I'm equally, if not more, scared of losing that amount of blood again and possibly needing the blood transfusion.
Though there's always the possibility that I may not lose too much blood this time. I don't know what to do.
How would others feel in my situation? I appreciate any responses.