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Jealous siblings

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AJKmummy · 15/12/2024 21:11

Back story I'm pregnant so is my little sister , due a day apart. We both have boys I have 2 she has 1 . We both found out the gender of our babies recently however she isn't speaking to me as I'm having a girl and she's having a boy , she desperately wanted a girl. I'm made to feel like a terrible person because of the gender of my baby. She's kicked off by shouting and screaming that I'm a 'spoilt b#tch ' multiple times :( all because I kept my pregnancy a secret for 14 weeks also , she wasn't happy said I shouldn't announce my pregnancy because she's also pregnant and it's not fair. It's stressing me out so bad as it's causing a tension when I visit my parents (she lives with them)

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SweetBobby · 15/12/2024 21:15

She sounds psychotic, maybe she needs help.

Anyway, don't let her ruin your pregnancy.

CheeseyOnionPie · 15/12/2024 21:26

She’s pregnant and living at home. Is she a teenager? Whether she is or not, it’s time she grew the fuck up.

DianaRiggsCatsuit · 15/12/2024 21:28

She sounds unhinged and very jealous.
I expect she will be furious when you announce your baby's arrival, especially if yours is born first.
Sorry you're having to deal with this because it sounds very stressful.

sel2223 · 15/12/2024 21:38

Wow, that is a ridiculous reaction on her part. What do the rest of your family say about it all?

SkaneTos · 15/12/2024 21:41

Try to not let it get to you. Try to not let it stress you out.

Your sister has problems of her own if she is acting like that.

Focus on yourself, your pregnancy, and your children.

MyPinkFish · 16/12/2024 07:38

She sounds about 14, pathetic. Defo doesn't sound stable enough to have kids. You can't enjoy your pregnancy because it affects her? Absolutely not

TheCalmQuail · 16/12/2024 07:43

Was she like this before pregnancy? Pregnancy hormones can play a part but her behaviour is totally uncalled for. Does anyone stand up for you when this happens? What are your parents or partner doing/saying in response. Honestly I'd stop visiting. Let your DP visit you if they want. It's very unfair on you.

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AJKmummy · 16/12/2024 12:47

TheCalmQuail · 16/12/2024 07:43

Was she like this before pregnancy? Pregnancy hormones can play a part but her behaviour is totally uncalled for. Does anyone stand up for you when this happens? What are your parents or partner doing/saying in response. Honestly I'd stop visiting. Let your DP visit you if they want. It's very unfair on you.

Yes she is like this whether pregnant or not she's always been like it growing up. She is a little worse when pregnant but not by much and it isn't out of character for her to want things her way or no way. We have all adapted to just either ignoring her or not saying things in front of her.

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PregnantAtLast · 16/12/2024 13:13

AJKmummy · 16/12/2024 12:47

Yes she is like this whether pregnant or not she's always been like it growing up. She is a little worse when pregnant but not by much and it isn't out of character for her to want things her way or no way. We have all adapted to just either ignoring her or not saying things in front of her.

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I guess just carry on with the usual approach of ignoring her? She sounds a bit bonkers. I know a couple of people like this and I just try to keep them a bit at arms length, although it's hard when it's your sister.

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