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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Everything is so confusing? Pregnancy of unknown location?

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pumpkinbaby30 · 14/12/2024 17:28

I had my postive on Sunday just gone ( faint lines ) Last period was 9th nov making me 4 weeks and 6 days but this does not take into account that I may have gotten my ovulation days wrong and also implanted late perhaps.
I have been having progressively darkening strips starting off with super faint positives at 18dpo (late I know) to much darker strips but by no means dye stealers.
Clearblue digital was showing 1-2 weeks as recent as a few days ago which I know it should be more along the lines of 2-3 by now.
Fast forward to yesterday - I had strong kidney/flank pains in my sides (not in the abdomen) and a strange pain in my Shoulders and arms - immediately I was scared to death and thought ectopic! and rushed myself to A&E where after bloods and after a urine test they have confirmed my hcg level is a little low at 205 and they are going to take bloods again on Monday morning which I am so happy about as I'm hoping it will show up what the issue is - a few other things that happened were :
I started getting brown spotting/ faint light pink on one occasion I went to the bathroom spotting has stopped now
They scanned me - they said at 205 hcg they really don't think they can see anything on a scan which ended up being correct but they could also not see any growth in any abnormal areas which was reassuring.
Doctor seemed pretty confident she doesn't think it's ectopic she couldn't see any fluid or any ruptures or anything which was reassuring. She also confirms she can see the uterine line thickening as if my body is preparing for baby.
In conclusion I will be going back on Monday for those bloods - they said if my levels double they will scan me again and if they don't then it will be a waiting game. I know I am super early still and anything can happen at this point but has anyone had a similar situation.

they gave me a leaflet about pregnancy of unknown location which I immediately threw away because I did not want to overthink anything - but they did also agree that it is far to early to determine anything so will be keeping a close eye on me.

I'm trying to be as calm as possible about this but being in limbo is killing me as someone who is a mega control freak and dealing with trauma from my previous miscarriage back in august - it feels like it's all coming back when I worked so hard to get back to feeling like myself. I refuse to let this get to me like it did last time but I am Trying to be realistic also as last time I suffered so badly I didn't think I would ever get through it. I've come so far and I am trying to protect myself so I am Preparing myself for the worst case scenario even though it could all be fine by some miracle but also the realist in me says surely with the spotting and them not being able to see anything on the scan all signs are leading to miscarriage perpahs?
Would so welcome any positive stories! Can't believe I am writing on this thread again :(

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teatoast8 · 14/12/2024 17:38

Very early for a scan. 6 weeks would of been better

teatoast8 · 14/12/2024 17:39

Just read it again. Fair enough on scan but won't show much. Sure it's better to get bloods. Glad its not ectopic

Otto223 · 14/12/2024 17:56

This happened to me. Went in between 4/5 weeks for bleeding and they couldn’t see anything on the scan. Gave me a leaflet for pregnancy of unknown location. Went back few days later and the scan confirmed a sac in right place. Then went back in after 6 weeks and we saw fetal pole & a heart beat 😊

pumpkinbaby30 · 14/12/2024 18:16

Otto223 · 14/12/2024 17:56

This happened to me. Went in between 4/5 weeks for bleeding and they couldn’t see anything on the scan. Gave me a leaflet for pregnancy of unknown location. Went back few days later and the scan confirmed a sac in right place. Then went back in after 6 weeks and we saw fetal pole & a heart beat 😊

This is so reassuring my love thank you xx im
glad it all went well 😘

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anonny55 · 14/12/2024 18:45

@pumpkinbaby30 same happened to me..couldn't see anything on scan until my hcg was at about 3000. I'm 29 weeks now so was all fine for me..my hcg more than doubled every 48hrs that it was checked so that was a good indication it was okay. My uterine lining was also thickening at the same time

HereWeGoAgainBaby6 · 14/12/2024 20:02

first of all congratulations to you 😊 second of all, at that gestation their will be not be anything to see at all which isnt suprising, but its a good thing she has pointed out is that your uterine lining is thickening out (which it should be doing to accomodate the pregnancy) Also as for your hcg levels, they clearly indicate an early pregnancy - i remember one of mine hcg bloods been took came back at 210!(this was lastyear) which like the EPAU nurse said to me - your levels are abit low, but thats something they expect to see when someome is early on in pregnanacy & the main thing they look for is that the numbers double! so hopefully that will reassure you in some way 💕 hope all goes well on monday ❤️

pumpkinbaby30 · 14/12/2024 20:46

Thanks so much all for the reassurance - I have just checked and my brown spotting has turned into red bleeding ( less than a period more than spotting I would say) - could it be that we are dealing with a chemical pregnancy? Surely this isn’t viable at this point? I know people have said before that bleeding or spotting to some extent is normal?

I guess I am just trying to stay realistic and won’t know for sure until Mondays bloods x

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pumpkinbaby30 · 17/12/2024 10:19

Hey ladies unfortunately I had a call to let me know my levels have significantly decreased which means I am miscarrying

sending positive vibes to everyone for the future

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Hrf1503 · 17/12/2024 11:11

I’m so sorry you’re going through this again OP. I’ve had two miscarriages and it’s absolutely devastating. There’s nothing I can say to make it any better but I found a podcast called The Worst Girl Gang Ever really helped me not feel so alone. Take care of yourself, sending hugs 💐

HereWeGoAgainBaby6 · 17/12/2024 12:36

@pumpkinbaby30 n'awww hun i am so sorry to hear that 💔 tbh ive had shit start to my day this morning too :-( ive created a thread about it if you want to have a look rather than me explain. but i hope you are doing ok? 🩷

pumpkinbaby30 · 17/12/2024 12:40

I’m sorry to hear that lovely , surprisingly I’m doing well I’m just so pleased it’s not ectopic and considering how traumatic my previous miscarriage was this feels like a walk in the park in comparison - I really hope it stays this way and it’s a smooth process I.e. like a period as I said my previous one was horrific and left me with trauma - I am so sorry you are having a bad day I will look at your thread now

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