Hi
I'll be about 32 weeks Christmas week. Am I being unreasonable if I decide to sit Christmas out this year? Usually we alternate throughout the family but it mostly sits with us hosting (biggest space) or my MIL (smallest space but better location). I have struggle quite a lot this pregnancy and now going through a lot of back pain and the exhaustion is come back that I had in the first trimester. Now my other DSs would prefer to be with their cousins which makes complete sense to me as they're kids. However, it looks like it's being frowned upon that i kind of just want to chill at home. I get that it's a family time, however, I'd much prefer to have the freedom to go for a nap when I want to and put my feet up and not really stress about running around cooking or entertaining other people. By no means am I the life and soul of the party but it's responses like " you can't just sit at home alone on Christmas day!?" These are from the in-laws and my family my DH is happy with whatever.
Thoughts?x