how would you feel if you told your partner you were pregnant with your second child, have argued over the smallest of things basically since you broke the news a few weeks ago and now have been told explicitly that they aren’t happy about the situation and have told me that I will not be able to cope and it will be absolute hell. I raise my child basically on my own 7 days a week with prehaps an odd hours break here or there. I do all household chores including dinners laundry etc etc etc
So yes I find some days hard and overstimulating and will be the first to admit I’ve had a sh*t day and that it’s been hard, not to mention my little one doesn’t like to sleep much so throw in some sleep deprivation in there - I think overall I do a pretty darned good job but that’s clearly not seen or appreciated by my partner and now he tells me this
im hurt but dont know if im over-reacting or what to feel or think!! I’m early on in this pregnancy but I feel like there’s no joy in it now that he’s admitted that he feels this way - how am I supposed to be normal with him when he feels this way? When I try to talk to him he gets angry and walks away