hi there....you might be better off putting this in the "nappies" section as you will probably get a better response!
When DD was little I used shaped terries (tots bots, little lambs, bambinex) with a motherease rikki, tots, or nature babies wrap over the top.
now she is a bit older and is very wriggly, we use pocket nappies as two parters are a bit of a nightmare at change times.
most nappy sellers do an advisory service and they will talk you through the various systems. also check out if there are any nappy advisors in your area, they will come out to you with a selection so you can see and feel the different ones.
initially, I bought a trial pack from bumfluff nappies (flame who runs it is a fellow MNetter), and also a job lot second hand from some classified ads. Once i knew whcih I preferred, I bought a few more of those.
I did find that different nappies worked in different situations (ie an all in one for that quick middle of the night/morning change or when out and about or being looked after by the GPs), and some are more absorbant and better suited to night time use, so it suited me to have a few different types. I also had some terry squares on hand for the times when all the nappies were in the wash. they were OK, but not too great at breast fed baby poo containment!)
wiggleyworm, there's no need to wash at a higher temperature. Most nappies wash just fine at 40 degrees, and most wraps advise 40 degrees on the lable .
Good Luck and have fun, it's almost as addictive as shoe shopping