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Pregnancy

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Flower10101 · 18/11/2024 05:02

Hello everyone,

Currently writing this while crying my eyes out at 41 weeks pregnant. I already know what you guys will say but I just want to write it down. Me and my partner have been together 2 years and I'm currently 41 weeks pregnant with his baby. He's had a couple beers tonight and got really mad when he came home, threw my phone on the floor, grabbed me by my hair, shook my head. He told me I have issues like my mam and that he hopes our daughter doesn't come with them and that other people have told him that our daughter will. I feel like I'm loosing my mind and going crazy but I think I'm with a narcissist. I'm crying and he's mimicking me and mocking me while I cry. I moved abroad to be with him and I pay for everything as he hasn't got a job right now as makes no money. I have no family here and I just feel like I only have him that's why it's so hard to leave. Please can someone give me clarity. Im so emotional my hormones are all over and im due to go into Labour soon. Please tell me everything will be ok.

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20yearagegap · 18/11/2024 06:19

Oh God, can you go to a hotel? Are you still abroad now? If so I would start planning to move home as soon as you can get a passport for the baby. I'm so sorry he sounds like a disgusting excuse for a man.

sel2223 · 18/11/2024 08:54

Wow - this is an enormous red flag. He'll be full of apologies but, if he can put his hand on you when 41 weeks pregnant, how is he going to react when sleep deprived and stressed and the baby won't stop screaming? It doesn't bear thinking about.

Try to put some separation between you in the house, stay as calm as possible, have your baby and pretend all is OK but casually get their passport sorted and, as soon as you can, get the hell out of there. I flew with my baby at 7 weeks, not sure what the earliest recommended time is.

For your own safety and the safety of your child you need to get out of this situation.

I know it's hard. I too left everything and moved abroad to be with my now husband but this is actually dangerous and all the studies and research in the world will show you that it only gets worse. Abuse often begins in pregnancy but I've never heard of it ending there.

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