Pregnancy and freaking out

[Scaredandscared]

I have children and each time I had HG we have tried for a third child a few times now. I have had miscarriages and a TFMR. The TFMR was I got super sick with HG and nearly died. I think I’m pregnant I’m scared. I really want to move past this time in my life and fast forward to having a toddler. The pregnancy and first 6 months are always the worst.

Im scared, maybe we should look into a termination? I know I will regret it but my mind is racing and what if it’s awful again? How do I get through the next few months and not freak out. I feel like it’s more of a mental issue than anything else.

It's understandable you are scared, sending lots of hugs. Do you have anyone close you can talk to or a health care professional? I'd avoid making any decisions straight away due to how you are feeling. Do you feel able to talk to your partner?

Thanks, you are right. I’ve calmed down slightly. I would really regret not going forward with this pregnancy and I know I’m just freaking out. At the moment the sickness is no where near the level it was in my TFMR, I had already been admitted to hospital twice at this stage. I need to start thinking of positives not negatives!

All the best, you've got this and there is support out there xx