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2ndtimemommy · 05/11/2024 13:04

So I knew when my partner moved in with me he would be bringing his dog, which I didn't think would be a problem but we seem to disagree where the dog sleeps. When he lived alone he had the dog in his bed and he had free run of the house. In my home I dont want the dog in my bed. He's a very large and hairy dog, im also i very light sleeper so i wouldnt ever sleep with him jumping on amd off the bed all night. So I got the dog a bed to put in to livingroom so he can stay down stairs at night time but my partner didn't like this. The dog has mainly been sleeping at the top of the stairs. The landing area is very small and the dog takes up all the room. I'm 8months pregnant and not sleeping. Constantly up in the night for the toilet ect.. I said to my partner the dog needs to sleep down stairs as I have pgp and have to keep stepping over him to go to the bathroom and it hurts my hips. 2s this week I've gone to step over him and he as stood up and knocked me over. I'm only 4ft11 and carrying a large baby. If my hands wasn't free I would have fell down the stairs . I told my partner this and put my foot down and said he's sleeping down stairs, not only is it dangerous for me now, i worry about falling over him with a baby in my arms. Also my partner doesnt clean up his hairs, drool ect as he doesnt notice them apparently, so im Constantly hoovering and sweeping the stairs and wiping down the walls then spending the rest of the day in agony with my pgp . I dont ask my partner to help cos he just get stressed and bangs about. He doesnt help with any house work at all. Anyway so now my partner sleeps downstairs with the dog and not with me. I feel like he's choosing the dog over me. I've been in bed unwell these past few days and he never checked on me or come upstairs. I feel like when the baby is here I will be looking after him on my own while he's asleep downstairs with the dog . I'm booked in for section next week and worry about looking after the baby through the night by myself.

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
lasagnelle · 05/11/2024 13:06

Ask him to move out if he's a dick now he'll be worse when baby is here

Wolfiefan · 05/11/2024 13:07

It’s not helping to do housework. It’s just called being an adult.
The dog situation should have been addressed before he moved in. You’re a couple you need to learn to agree or compromise.
But honestly? He sounds like a complete waste of space. I don’t expect he will be doing much parenting.

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