Okay, so a bit of back story.
I am currently 14 weeks pregnant with my second, my first will only be 18 months when this baby is due. I need to have a plan set at my 20 week appointment and I will either be requesting an induction at 38 weeks or an elective c-section at 38 weeks.
With my first baby, after spontaneous, vaginal birth (assisted by ventouse and episiotomy) was in labour for over 24 hours, didn't eat/drink or fuel my body in any way in the time due to nausea and was pushing for over 2 and a half hours. My body was exhausted.
After birth I had a major PPH, 4-4.5 litres of blood I lost, I had abnormally high levels of acid, potassium and carbon dioxide in my blood so I had to be put into an induced coma for 38 hours, woke up in the ICU Monday after giving birth on Saturday.
Safe to say, this has caused a lot of anxiety around the birth of my second so due to the risk of complications and the mental health aspect I now have surrounding birth I do not know which to request, induction or c-section? I have done plenty of research and you are more likely to bleed more and haemorrhage with a c-section and the thought of having major surgery, whilst having a toddler and a baby to manage and also getting married a month later worried me. I would prefer an induction as I loved the whole labour/birth but I know people have also have horrendous experiences and ended up in an emergency c-section anyway.
What would be people's suggestions/experiences?