Found my list so here you go, for what it's worth this is my bag:
Baby's bag -
Vest / nappies, cream, cotton wool/ baby grow / cap or hat / dummy (if you're using them), blanket or shawl / muslin
Your bag - A going home outfit for me - nursing bra / knickers (not a thong!) / maternity trousers (that bump takes a while to go down, if ever!), button down top (something easy to breastfeed in, if you are)
Hairbrush, shampoo, hair ties, facial wash, moisturiser face & body, nail file, mirror, gel for tired legs and feet, shower foam, toothpaste & brush
Something to wear in bed, gown and slippers
Your own pillow
Spare knickers, socks, nursing/maternity bras, sanitary towels
lip balm
flannels (to wah with and bite down on??!!)
rescure remedy
arnica tablets (great to heal bruising)
camera (and film if not digital)
list of numers so you can call everyone with news
CDs
oil burner and candles and a lighter
your tens amchine
food (bananas etc)
That was in my bag!
I did end up having to stay in for 5 days so was glad of it all.