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Where would you put the nursery?

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RhubarbRocks · 29/09/2024 13:46

Just thinking through which room we should use as a nursery and would love an external perspective.

On the attached floor plan, the biggest room at the front of the house is our bedroom and will continue to be (not least as our neighbours bedrooms join on either side and we want to minimise noise for them).

So we have a choice of two other rooms:

  1. Middle room, where I currently have all my clothes
  2. Husband’s study

Whichever room becomes the nursery, the current contents would move to the spare room in the loft.

Challenges with each room:
’1. Middle room
Looks into the converted side return, so bathroom windows at 90 degrees to the bedroom window on each side plus a glass roof over the kitchen of each house directly below the room - concerns about noise and light into the room.

Not an issue for a long while but once old enough, would there be a temptation to try to climb out onto the wall diving the two kitchen roofs? (Clearly we will have those things on the windows to stop a child opening them far enough to climb out, but later on (eg early teens) it would be just the sort of thing I would have done).

There are two steps on the landing between the room and the bathroom - I’m worried about tripping when carrying the baby to/from the bath.

Baby in the neighbour’s room next door and we can hear crying through the walls - will they disturb each other? The neighbour husband also does his noisy peloton in that room at odd times with no headphones.

Next to our room so good for me for getting up in the night, but noisier for my husband to continue to sleep.

2.Husband’s study
Water tank in the room (can’t be moved anywhere else) and the boiler in the kitchen is directly below it with pipes coming up from that. I’d put a carbon monoxide alarm in the room but are there safety issues?

Next to bathroom so shower/ flushing loo noise. But no one uses the adjoining room in the neighbours house.

Two steps between our bedroom and the room (although I navigate this in the night already to go to the loo!)

Further for me to walk in the night, more difficult for toddler to find us?

My husband’s beloved (and expensive) armchair and desk won’t fit up the stairs into the loft room (although would fit in the middle room).

As you may be able to tell, although I am trying to be impartial, I would prefer my husband’s study but he has just spent two years getting it just how he likes it so I do understand why he is reluctant. I suppose I would like to know if my worries about the middle room are valid or not. My priority is baby and then husband. I really don’t mind where my clothes are!

NB the other option is the loft room but I am assuming a different floor is a bad plan and it is also difficult to regulate the temperature up there.

Where would you put the nursery?
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MidnightPatrol · 29/09/2024 13:48

Having lived in a house with exactly this layout, I’d go for the middle room as the study probably gets much colder overnight.

Scutterbug · 29/09/2024 13:48

I’d go for the middle room. Closer to you so easier.

FawnFrenchieMum · 29/09/2024 13:50

Definitely middle room for a nursery. Don’t try and make the room deadly silent, that just makes for future issues. Let them learn to sleep with some back ground noise.

No need to be thinking about teen years. Any issues and you can swap rooms round later on.

FunLurker · 29/09/2024 13:51

I personally would choose 2nd bedroom, as close than the study and seems a better size, study not as big as bathroom take up part. My idea would be 2nd bedroom and then loft when teenagers.

Alicana · 29/09/2024 13:54

Middle room as I imagine your husband has to work in the study so easier to keep things as they are.

You can get black out curtains later if you need them. Definitely get them use to noise, don’t get into the situation where everything has to be silent and pitch black (most children don’t like it and have a nightlight anyway!).

Alicana · 29/09/2024 13:57

Also, by the time the baby goes into its own room, they’ll probably have started to sleep through more.

Do you have a bed in the middle room now? I would keep that for now if you are worried about your husband not being able to function for work when you are no maternity leave as he can sleep in there. Then make the baby’s room up when they are ready to move.

When you go back to work, make sure you take it in turns to get up with the baby!!

JumpinJellyfish · 29/09/2024 13:57

We have this and the kids are in the middle room (sharing through choice!). It’s much easier to get to them/hear them in the night, which is still important even now they are 6 and almost 4.

HippeePrincess · 29/09/2024 13:58

My first advice would be to stop worrying about noise and light from any source, because if you get them used to the usual noises of life while they’re babies, trust me they will sleep through everything. Nothing worse than having a baby that only sleep in perfect conditions and tiptoeing around, worrying about flushing the loo. I’ve found the more normal noise the better they actually sleep.

Dont forget they will be in your room for a minimum of 6 months in any case.

It makes no sense undoing a room that’s already been done.

Trust me don’t protect your dh’s sleep too much, if he’s like 90% of “dh’s” they don’t hear the baby anyway. But if make it a habit of sharing the load when you can, yes even overnights while you’re on mat leave.

You’re worrying about a lot of hypothetical future things right now which you probably need to chill out about, who even knows if you’ll be living in the same house when they’re a teenager.

Peonies12 · 29/09/2024 13:58

Middle room - and don’t worry about light and noise: best thing is to get baby to sleep anywhere. But just wait and sort it once baby is going in their own room at 6 months? I’m due in a few days and we dont have a nusery set up/. seems pointless until in their own room. You seem to be very worried and over thinking this. You can always shuffle rooms around as baby grows up. And why are you trying to protect your husbands sleep!! It’s his baby too.

RhubarbRocks · 29/09/2024 14:08

Thank you everyone. Very clear and good advice! I do tend to overthink/worry so it’s good to have a bit of sense checking from you all! My husband will also be very pleased!!

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Daffyyellow · 29/09/2024 14:11

Middle room, for proximity and convenience.

Don’t make things too dark and silent, just makes for trickier times when they’re older.

DoublePeonies · 29/09/2024 14:30

Middle room for baby. BUT I'm not sure about having all your clothes upstairs from you.
So maybe a double shuffle required??

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