I’m nearly 8 weeks pregnant and so excited. There is another girl in my work who is also pregnant a few weeks before me. I haven’t told anyone in work apart from my manager. Anyway, the girl means well and is harmless but I find her very intense and asks a lot of personal questions as well as telling me about other colleagues personal issues which I don’t like. She has also made me very anxious about my own pregnancy as she had a scare a few weeks ago and proceeds to tell me all the details. I do appreciate she was anxious also but I found it didn’t help me and I tried to be as reassuring as I could so I have tried to keep my distance for my own well being. I’ve had issues before with toxic friendships and I think it has made me more guarded and afraid of opening up to others especially work colleagues. She doesn’t know I’m pregnant but has added me on social media and has reached out to me over text. I did accept her request but have restricted her and also only messaged back if it’s work related. Am I being an asshole?