Me and my partner are getting married at the end of November (I already have a 7 year old son from previous relationship), we planned to try for a baby after our wedding. I have my 3 day hen party in the South of France in two weeks time, which I was really looking forward to enjoying a drink and partying with my closest friends before getting married and extending our family. I found out a few days ago that I am about 5 weeks pregnant, and I can't lie I feel disappointed as I really didn't want to be pregnant for my exciting plans over the next few months. I took the morning after pill the day after the accident but I must've been ovulating already as it clearly hasn't worked. I know drinking alcohol isn't the be all and end all of everything but I don't know how I'm going to get away with not telling my friends I'm pregnant and not drinking, no judgement please but I have considered getting a termination, I am aware that people really struggle to get pregnant and this seems so selfish, I was just really looking forward to the next few months and hadn't factored in being pregnant, but the more the days go on I don't feel like I can go through with a termination, especially as I actually want a baby, just not quite yet. And I think I would live to regret it just for the sake of being able to drink. How do I get away with not drinking on my hen do? I would be 17 weeks pregnant on my wedding day now which changes a few things too. I guess I just want to hear other people's experiences of being pregnant during their hen and wedding. Sorry if this offends anyone, I just really needed an anonymous place to offload, my partner knows and is supportive and one of my friends knows. I understand how lucky I am to be able to get pregnant but these are just my feelings