Should I tell him if I get an abortion or keep the baby?

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If the father of my baby (I’m 5 weeks pregnant) told me he won’t contact me ever again and has blocked me (I think) on everything, is it then wrong of me to never tell him if I keep the baby or get an abortion? Part of me worries I’ll be filled with guilt if I don’t tell him, but the other part of me knows he’s basically asked me not to tell him and he doesn’t care, doesn’t want to be a dad, and he’s left me.

What would you do in this situation? He’s been absolutely terrible but I’ve very torn because I’m not an unkind person. Is it likely he will try and make contact again, even if he’s said he won’t?

I'm assuming he knows you're pregnant and then has reacted this way? I wouldn't bother but I would think he may pop back up in the future curious. Tho some men never bother! I wouldn't go out of my way to tell him though, if he wanted to know that bad he wouldn't have blocked you. Sorry you're going through this and I wish you all the best in whatever you decide x

No it's not wrong to give him any information. Sadly, girls are taught to 'be kind' to everyone but themselves. The best thing you can do in this situation is be kind to yourself. Don't even think about telling him what you decide to do. In your shoes I would not go ahead with this pregnancy, I'd want this loser and his gene pool out of my life. Block him, and don't look back. You deserve a happy future with a partner who is loving and kind to you and any future children.