blighted ovum???

[SereneOpalFawn]

I have never been so paranoid since I found out I was pregnant I feel like it’s actually giving me some anxiety I’ve been so worried. I have had some brown discharge which hasn’t helped even though I’ve read this is fairly common. However now I’m paranoid my pregnancy isn’t viable. I have had really promising tests and I just wanted to know if anyone else has had a non viable pregnancy with similar tests to mine. Please pray for a healthy viable pregnancy for myself I don’t think I could cope with the loss with the place I was in before I found out, this baby truly feels like God’s gift but I won’t be confident till I hear the heartbeat :(

Hey! Your tests are perfect! Stop testing you’ll drive yourself crazy 😊 Congratulations lovely xx

@HopefulllHolly ahhh you have no idea girl I have never been an anxious person but I honestly have never felt anxiety like this in my life. It’s seriously numbing😭 thank you so much though Holly I appreciate this a lot❤️ I definitely have been testing too much, I can’t wait for my next scan just so I have peace of mind and can finally start to ENJOY this pregnancy🫶🏽

I was the same (mine is an ivf baby after 7 years of TTC) so I know exactly how you feel! I tested constantly and then I had a test come back lighter and had a total meltdown (turns out when hormones are very high they can make the test not show as strongly!). After that I stopped testing. I had a scan at 7 weeks with the ivf clinic and then another at 9.5 weeks, the nhs one at 12 weeks, another at 15 weeks 🤣🤣 so although I’ve stopped testing I still get some reassurance from scans.
I WISH I could say it gets easier and maybe it does very slightly after the 12 week scan but I am still anxious.
Hang in there girlie! Worrying and testing will not change the outcome, all it will do is make you stressed and stop you from enjoying your pregnancy. It’s a happiness zapper! So big deep breaths - today you are pregnant and baby is ok. And take each day as it comes. ☺️ It’ll be ok!!

@HopefulllHolly ahh bless you, that makes my worries seem so trivial, you must feel so blessed to be where you are now! I will be praying for us both❤️ How many weeks are you now?! Thank you for this information cause knowing me I’ll test again and possibly see this and completely freak out🤣 I was actually thinking about this though, like although i’ll have some peace when I hear the heartbeat and see my little bean after the 12 week scan i’ll have found new things to google and worry about🤦🏽‍♀️ I did NOT expect it to be this rough and worrying. Your last paragraph is so true and almost brought me to tears but I’m in work and don’t want people to ask what’s up. Thank you so much for your kind words and reassurance. Praying peace and blessings over both of us and both our perfect little beans❤️

Aww bless I was the same had 2 blighted ovum and now I am 30 weeks 2 days gone and he keeps me up all night already kicking ha ,I would book in for a private scan for peace of mind that's what I did x

I actually have my last early scan on Thursday I can't wait to see the little tiny heartbeat again!
Everything was fine apart from an SCH that was diagnosed at week 6 however my last early scan which was just after 7 weeks they were unable to find it so hopefully that means it's gone now. I'll be 8+5 by the time my next and last early scan so just trusting in God that all is okay and SCH will be completely healed. Sorry about your previous losses and I'm very happy to hear your little one is active. I can't wait to feel the kicking and little hiccups and everything in between ❤️