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12 week sonographer said 'she'

7 replies

ab03 · 06/08/2024 14:20

At our ultrasound the sonographer said 'she's moving around a lot' - now I'm wondering how likely is it that she saw the sex of the baby, or was it more likely just a slip of the tongue? Image attached in case anyone thinks it confirms/contradicts the 'she' comment!

12 week sonographer said 'she'
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KnittingKnewbie · 06/08/2024 14:22

There is no way of knowing at 12 weeks by looking as the sex organs don't form into male/female until 16/18(?) weeks

So it was just a turn of phrase

Cas112 · 06/08/2024 14:24

Some sonographers just say he/she as generic word they use for all scans. Doubt they could actually tell at 12 weeks

MillenialAvocado · 06/08/2024 14:24

My sister had this at her scan too and was wondering the same thing, he turned out to be a boy! We think the sonographer was saying "she" out of respect... a bit like how you'd refer to a boat or something. It was a very odd choice of phrase though Confused Either way, congratulations! Smile

pizzaHeart · 06/08/2024 14:29

I’ve noticed some people are using “she” to replace word “ baby” unless baby is known to be a boy. So might be this.

Esssa · 06/08/2024 14:32

Well we all start appearing female until male sex organs develop so they were technically correct at that gestation. Though I find skull theory quite accurate at 12 week scans. Rounded for girls, more square forehead for boys

Nbaby · 06/08/2024 14:35

i got that at my 12 week scan in first pregnancy she said “she” and it turned out it was a girl
this time they said she again but it’s a boy I think it’s just something they said or maybe because they were talking about my 1st daughter before

Iwant20cats · 06/08/2024 14:54

Once upon a time unborn babies were known as he for simplicity ( unless it was confirmed as a girl) its better than calling baby 'it' I guess

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