21wks pregnant and freaked out about toxoplasmosis risks… I previously had 3 unexplained miscarriages last year before this pregnancy. We have 2 cats who are strictly indoors. Our cats crawl on everything (bed, clean laundry on heated drying rack, every chair, blanket and surface). My husband does the litter trays and I am paranoid and Antibac constantly. Unfortunately one of our cats had a bout of diarrhea today, we woke up to stains in the carpet (which I stepped in), and dangly poop on her butt. My husband chased her around with scissors and baby wipes trying to clean her butt, but she of course has meanwhile sat everywhere. I’m so freaked out, I want to disinfect the entire house. My husband suggested I stay in a hotel if I’m that concerned. I really don’t want to do this, but I need to know realistically how bad the risk is and if I need to be worried enough to take extreme measures. If I ask my midwife or any advice here in the UK, I just the get the NHS guidelines quoted at me and no more. They’d never do any testing either, no chance, so I’m on my own here. I also learned that for the past 2 weeks, my husband has been washing his hands in the kitchen sink with our communal regular soap after doing the litter trays vs the bathroom I requested he use with the Antibac soap… so not happy I’ve been drinking out of that sink too….