Hello,
I am 27 and have had three miscarriages within the space of 8 months, the last baby was sent off for genetics testing which came back that the baby had chromosomal issues and had triploidy. The consultant reassured me that this was the baby's genetics and not ours and would have been down to the conception of the baby not being correct and our chances of the same issue happening again would be very low. Me & my husband have been trying to conceive for three years, this baby is so desperately wanted & I have never reached 10 weeks before.
We have found out about the NIPT testing which I could have from this week, but part of me wants to hope that this pregnancy is ok, my body isn't telling me there is anything wrong and to try and enjoy it as I have always had spotting, cramps and alot of trauma in the previous pregnancies. I really don't know what to do.
The midwife has said that it can take a week or two for your low/high risk results to come back which would leave me at 14 weeks, and that petrifies me more the thought of there being something wrong further down the line. If I have the test it'll either help reassure or it'll break my heart but either way the outcome will happen of what is written in the stars.
I am very confused, and don't want to cause anymore fear and stress to my life, but then would it reassure me and help?
Any advice would be so appreciated as this is all new to me. x