Going stir crazy..

[Rockyslife]

Me & my husband had been trying to conceive for three years, we were awaiting IVF and to our amazement in December we found out we managed to conceive naturally, we sadly lost the baby at 7 weeks naturally, and we fell pregnant again in the March and found out at our 9 week check up at EPU that the baby's heart had stop beating and I needed surgical management. We are now pregnant again, which don't get me wrong I feel extremely blessed to of caught this way after such a difficult journey, but I can't help but feel petrified that the same will happen again, I am just waiting for our next scan for them to say I am sorry the baby has stopped growing, I am taking one day at a time but the more days I get the harder it feels. We saw baby last friday and all was well then, but nothing is promised is it :( I really don't know how I am going to get through Friday, I am so scared. I just don't want it to end :(

Got no advice to offer, but I hope this time is different and you're able to have a smooth and healthy pregnancy.

Good luck

So sorry for what you've been through. Really hope this time everything goes well. Try not to let yourself get too stressed out, stress isn't good for little one 💐

So sorry for your previous losses.
Pregnancy after loss is such an anxious time isn't it. How far along are you this time?
I have no great advice other than to just take it a day at a time and tell yourself that today you are pregnant 😊
I know only too well how the days and weeks drag waiting for the next scan. However, for some hope my third pregnancy after two previous losses was successful and resulted in my DS. I never really stopped being anxious but I'd say it got easier after the 12 week scan, then the 20 weeks scan and then a lot better when you can feel them move. Until then I was scan mad.

Try and keep busy and give yourself something to do to help time pass quicker, for instance

think this week I'm having dinner with a friend on Monday, date night on Tuesday. Wednesday I'll have a little pamper night run a nice bath and relax, Friday I'll watch that show I've been wanting to see for ages and what not, dosnt have to be things that cosy money but constantly thinking about it can really make time drag. I had to wait 10 days a few years ago to find out if I'd lost my baby after a really bad bleed (I hadn't) 10 days felt like a month because I was constantly thinking about it.