Please don’t laugh genuine advice needed please

[JKDcot]

I’m 41 and considering trying for a second baby. I know the likelihood is low due to my age. I have put off trying for years as I found my first pregnancy really hard. I suffered with morning sickness and struggled to cope.

I am now on the fence to even consider trying. I’d absolutely love a second child. But not sure I want to get on the emotional rollercoaster of hoping, worrying about miscarriage and then if I was lucky enough to get pregnant I would be a mess feeling so debilitated with sickness.

Any one been in a similar position? Any objective advice as I cannot at all. Thank you

I'm approaching 40 and currently 7 weeks pregnant. We have had fertility issues and two miscarriages over the past few years but we had private fertility testing and nothing indicated issues and AMH levels etc were fine. I am sick as a dog mind you, but don't think that's down to age. Good luck and best wishes 💫

Thank you and hope all goes to plan for you